Understanding the Desire Gap One of the most common patterns men experience in long term relationships is what we call the desire gap . A man wants intimacy and sex with his partner more frequently than she does. In the beginning of the relationship this usually is not a problem. The honeymoon phase is full of passion, novelty, and excitement. But over time many couples begin to notice a shift. The man still feels strong sexual desire, but his partner becomes less responsive

Porn is not the problem. It's a byproduct of misguided sexual energy. Your sexual energy is a superpower that when consciously directed can bring massive transformation and fulfillment to your life in areas that extend far beyond the bedroom. What if instead of fighting your sexual impulses - you created a model of sexual fulfillment that outperformed the level of pleasure you're finding in porn? Let me explain. I first became addicted to porn at ten years old. It deeply prog

Are you dominating life or is life dominating you? Are you able to hold tension or are you constantly looking for ways to release it? Are you able to read and follow subtle cues or are you constantly distracted? Are you claiming your desires or are you burying them in shame? If this post is uncomfortable, it's a good sign. It means there is a masculine potency buried deep inside you waiting to be unlocked. As men, each of us has the capacity to step into the fullness of our m