Men's Sexual Mastery Online Course
This online training offers all the tools, techniques, and teachings to re-wire and optimize your sexuality.
By combining behavioral neuroscience and somatic practices with Taoist and Tantric practices, this course offers a unique and comprehensive framework and process to transform your sex life.
Available for purchase as a standalone self-paced course, or you can join our group or 1:1 trainings for maximum results.
Men's Sexual Mastery Course Outline
Module 1: BDE (Big Divine Energy)
1) Build and Repair Your Masculine Container
2) Cut Out Energetic Leaks
3) Connect with Your Higher Self
4) Understand Semen Intention
5) Develop Coherence and Integrity
Module 2: Trasmutation
1) Pelvic Floor Connection for Sexual Control
2) Learn the Activation and Solo Cultivation Sequences
3) Rewire Old Sexual Responses Through "Blissipline" Practice
4) Breathwork for Sexual Energy Circulation & Transmutation
5) Understand Semen Retention Dangers and How to Avoid Them
6) Cultivate and Command Sexual Energy for Higher Purpose
Module 3: Regulation
1) Nervous System Regulation for Sexual Mastery
2) Proper Breathing for Sex and for Life
3) Understanding Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms for Men
4) Multi-Orgasmic Breathing
5) Understanding the Prostate
6) Opening the Pelvic Floor
Module 4: Optimization
1) Fuelling Your Body for Sexual Vitality
2) Physical & Emotional Detoxification
3) The Multi-Orgasmic Lifestyle
4) Lingam Optimization
5) Qi Gong
6) Six Healing Sounds
Module 5: Atunement
1) Understanding Trauma Responses
2) Feminine and Masculine Arousal
3) The Sexual Simmer
4) Female Pleasure Pathways
5) Yoni Mapping
6) Female Orgasms
Module 6: Amplification
1) Balancing the Inner Masculine & Feminine
2) Amplifying Masculine Energy in Relationship
3) Understanding the Polarity Spectrum
4) How Polarities Shift Over Time
5) Energetic Flexibility and How To Use It
Sign up now to receive full access to this holistic & comprehensive self-paced course designed to transform your experience of sex, sexual energy, and intimate relationships from the inside out.
Over 55 video presentations and guided practice videos, with prescribed daily routines that build and expand week after week. Providing you with a clear path and specific protocols to master this most fundamental and pervasive aspect of our being, our sexual life-force energy. Become the man and the lover you know you are capable of being.
Meet the Founders
Ben Timby is a transformational coach and spiritual guide who founded Men’s Sexual Mastery in 2024. His expertise is built on a rich foundation of Tantric and Taoist sexual alchemy practices, learned from esteemed teachers such as Mantak Chia, Chris Bale, Jonathan White, and Kim Anami.
Ben’s journey began in a conservative religious background, where he experienced sexual suppression, porn addiction, and severe depression and anxiety. Through his personal transformation, Ben discovered the profound impact of transforming one’s sexuality on overall well-being and spiritual connection. This realization led him to create Men’s Sexual Mastery, an online course, community, and coaching platform.
Men’s Sexual Mastery aims to empower men by integrating ancient practices with modern behavioral neuroscience and psychology. The mission is to awaken, align, and empower men to reach their fullest sexual potential. By fostering conscious alignment with sexual energy, Ben believes that men can tap into a divine gift that can heal ancestral traumas of abuse and destruction while simultaneously connecting to levels of orgasmic bliss and pleasure that will transform their lives.
In 2025, Ian Hawks joined the Men’s Sexual Mastery team in a re-launch as Co-Founder. Deeply aligned in their mission and values, Ian and Ben forged an alliance to bring through the most potent and impactful Men’s Sexual Mastery program possible.
Ian serves as an initiatory guide, breathwork facilitator, and sacred sexuality mentor. His path has been one of deep devotion—to the Earth, to the feminine, and to the awakening potential of men.
Having spent over a decade in the wilderness, Ian developed an unshakable reverence for the feminine—a devotion that now expresses through his intimate partnership, his dedication to equalizing the orgasm gap, and his work guiding men to embody the truth of their being.
Alongside his beloved, he supports couples in deepening intimacy and dissolving the barriers to trust, connection, and eros. His mission is to awaken men to the sacred depths of our sexuality—in doing so we will individually and collectively restore harmony between the masculine and feminine.
