
Men's Sexual Mastery Online Course

This online training offers all the tools, techniques, and teachings to re-wire and optimize your sexuality.
By combining behavioral neuroscience and somatic practices with Taoist and Tantric practices, this course offers a unique and comprehensive framework and process to transform your sex life.
Available for purchase as a standalone self-paced course, or you can join our group or 1:1 trainings for maximum results.
Men's Sexual Mastery Course Outline

Module 1: Foundations
1) Sexual Magnetism 101
2) Identifying and Resolving Energetic Leaks
3) Connecting to Deep Internal Coherence
4) Solo/Partner Sexual Cultivation Practice
5) Creating Ritual and Accountability to Re-Wire the Brain

Module 2: Getting into the Body
1) Sexuality and the Nervous System
2) Somatic Re-Wiring Tools
3) Orgasmic Breathwork Practices
4) Daily Practices for Sexual Energy
5) Pelvic Floor Opening 101

Module 3: Playtime
1) Edging Dynamics
2) Creating the Sexual Simmer
3) Female Sexual Pleasure Maps and Orgasm Techniques
4) Male Sexual Pleasure Maps and Orgasm Techniques

Module 4: Cultivating BDE (Big Divine Energy)
1) Internal Alignment Tools and Practices
2) Increasing Testosterone 101
3) Supplements, Diet, and Physical Activity
4) Semen Intention and Post-Ejaculation Care
5) Taoist Sexual Transmutation Practices

Module 5: Connecting to Life Force
1) Sexual Life Force Mastery in Martial Arts
2) Introduction to Qi Gong
3) Guided Qi Gong Practices for Sexual Vitality
4) Sexual Energetic Activation Practices

Module 6: Creating a Sex Lab
1) Advanced Sexual Transmutation Practices
2) Sexual Creative Manifestation Practices
5) Cultivating Internal Orgasmic Energy in Everyday Life
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Meet the Founders

Ben Timby is a transformational coach and spiritual guide who founded Men’s Sexual Mastery in 2024. His expertise is built on a rich foundation of Tantric and Taoist sexual alchemy practices, learned from esteemed teachers such as Mantak Chia, Chris Bale, Jonathan White, and Kim Anami.
Ben’s journey began in a conservative religious background, where he experienced sexual suppression, porn addiction, and severe depression and anxiety. Through his personal transformation, Ben discovered the profound impact of transforming one’s sexuality on overall well-being and spiritual connection. This realization led him to create Men’s Sexual Mastery, an online course, community, and coaching platform.
Men’s Sexual Mastery aims to empower men by integrating ancient practices with modern behavioral neuroscience and psychology. The mission is to awaken, align, and empower men to reach their fullest sexual potential. By fostering conscious alignment with sexual energy, Ben believes that men can tap into a divine gift that can heal ancestral traumas of abuse and destruction while simultaneously connecting to levels of orgasmic bliss and pleasure that will transform their lives.

In 2025, Ian Hawks joined the Men’s Sexual Mastery team in a re-launch as Co-Founder. Deeply aligned in their mission and values, Ian and Ben forged an alliance to bring through the most potent and impactful Men’s Sexual Mastery program possible.
Ian serves as an initiatory guide, breathwork facilitator, and sacred sexuality mentor. His path has been one of deep devotion—to the Earth, to the feminine, and to the awakening potential of men.
Having spent over a decade in the wilderness, Ian developed an unshakable reverence for the feminine—a devotion that now expresses through his intimate partnership, his dedication to equalizing the orgasm gap, and his work guiding men to embody the truth of their being.
Alongside his beloved, he supports couples in deepening intimacy and dissolving the barriers to trust, connection, and eros. His mission is to awaken men to the sacred depths of our sexuality—in doing so we will individually and collectively restore harmony between the masculine and feminine.